Thursday, July 28, 2011

1p36 Conference in MN & Doctor Appt Updates

Our sweet little Alayna...curls & a smile!

Jacoby and Jakub at the 1p36 Conference.

Lily literally runs around everywhere & we love her glasses!

Maya is getting so big! She is one beautiful little girl.

This is Beth and she is 45 years old. She was just recently diagnosed with 1p36 Deletion. She had been misdiagnosed with Prader Wille Syndrome for all that time. She is one lovely lady.

This is where we stayed at Bethel University...yep, in the dorms!

Dana and Alayna!

This was our sleeping arrangements!

Alayna got the pack-n-play!

Alayna getting ready for day #1 of the conference.

This is on the way to the conference in the car.
Getting sleepy!
Oh thank God, she finally gave up! I don't have any photos of her screaming her head off....I thought I'd spare everyone...LOL. Alayna DOES NOT sleep well in the car.
This is all of Alayna's stuff for the 2 day trip to MN! Yep, everything is packed but the kitchen sink.


5th Annual 1p36 Deletion Conference - St. Paul, MN - Bethel University


As most of you can probably relate, packing for an infant is a lot of work! Especially when you are taking a trip. Alayna isn't an "infant", however, she requires all of the same stuff an infant does. The photo above is just HER stuff. There is so much to think about like what we will feed her (she doesn't eat McDonald's yet...DARN), diapers, wipes, where will we give her a bath, do we have a highchair, where will she sleep, do we have her medicine and tylenol, and do we have the KidKart? It took me longer to pack for her than it did myself! But it was very well worth it!!


We arrived in St. Paul around 10:30pm Thursday, July 14th. We stayed in a dorm on campus. This was so nice because it was so cheap and it provided us a "retreat" type feeling with the other families. All of the 1p36 families had 1 whole dorm to themselves. The dorm rooms were not anything like I lived in when I was at Illinois State! This dorm room was meant to sleep 6 students and it had 3 bedrooms, a living room, a toilet room, 2 sink room, 2 shower stalls, and a kitchen area. It was like an apartment and if I were a student at Bethel I'd love it! The only thing it lacked was a TV....forgot about that! But thank goodness we brought the laptop.


The speakers did an amazing job and thanks to Beth for making the conference wonderful! It is a big job and individual families just volunteer to take it on and organize it. There was a moment when all of the attendees stood up and introduced themselves and their child. I counted that 26 children were represented by the families. 18 out of the 26 families had children that were 8 years of age or younger. I found that interesting! I enjoyed meeting the new families and seeing the ones we have met over the past 5 years. Dana and I are so thankful to have been able to attend 4 out of the 5 conferences. I have to give thanks to the ARC of Illinois as they have provided stipend money to our family each year to help us with expenses. Without the help from ARC I don't think we would've made it to as many of the conferences as we have.


Next year the conference is moving south to Gatlinburg, TN! We plan to attend and enjoy those Smoky Mountains. Fortunately, my family has roots from Knoxville, TN so we are hoping to get a family reunion going at the same time.


Neurology Update - Iowa City


Two weeks ago, Alayna visited her neurologist in Iowa City. The wonderful news is that Alayna hasn't had a visible seizure since August of 2008. So, by the doctors recommendation we have been in the process of weaning her off the phenobarbital (medicine to help with seizures). Last night was her last dose!! Please say a prayer and keep your fingers crossed that Alayna doesn't re-develop seizures. It is always a risk to children with this syndrome, so we just don't know. If things should develop, we'll just call the doctor and she will prescribe something else besides phenobarb. But I am truly hoping that this doesn't happen and that Alayna will be seizure free!!


At that neurology visit, her doctor made a referral for us to see the Center for Disabilities and Development at the University of Iowa Hospitals. I was thrilled! So, on November 30th we see the following disciplines: Social work (30 min), Physical Therapy (60 min), Occupational Therapy (60 min), Audiology (60 min), Psychology (120 min), Medical Staff (60 min), and speech/language (60 min). Oh my gosh is all I have to say!! I may need some medication myself for that visit! That is going to be one very long day, but it will be so nice to have the doctors working with Alayna housed under one roof. My main concern at this time for Alayna is her behavior and PT/OT development. I'll keep you posted.


Developmental Pediatrician - Peoria, IL


This past Monday, we traveled to Peoria to see Alayna's developemental pediatrician who has seen her since she was diagnosed at 11 weeks of age. Overall, he was pleased with how things were going. Unfortunately, I can't say that a whole lot has dramatically changed in the year that we last saw him. Alayna is making strides in gaining strength, sitting, and bearing weight. At this appointment I told him that my main concern at this time is Alayna's behavior. She is very unconsolable, will cry for long periods of time, doesn't adapt well to change, doesn't like being in crowds or unfamiliar places, etc. So, Alayna is now trying out a medication called Diazapam which is generic for Valium. It is used to treat anxiety and it isn't at all uncommon that children with special needs use medication to help improve their behavior. She got her first dose last night. We are starting with 1/2 of the prescribed dose first and seeing if we notice a change. If we don't then we will increase it to the full dosage amount prescribed. We return to Peoria in 3 months. I'll keep you posted on this too!


Pediatrician - Dr. Neptune


Yesterday we went to visit Dr. Neptune who is our local pediatrician. Alayna is now weighing 27 pounds and is 37 inches long. He couldn't believe how strong she was! And for those of you who don't know Alayna, she is strong! The reason why she isn't yet walking or crawling has very little to do with strength and muscle developement, it is all in the brain! Her wires aren't making the connection yet on how to do these things. I have the faith though that someday she will walk! It just takes Alayna awhile to learn things and repetition is the key. Alayna also received 3 of her "kindergarten" shots so we wouldn't have 6 next year. She cried so much while he was checking her out that she fell asleep on the table and she slept through every single shot!! I was so happy. Oh and so was Lexi and Douglas!


Potpourri


Since the conference, I decided to get Alayna's Baby Signing Time DVD's back out again. I had bought 2 of them awhile back but she never paid attention to them. Now, she is in LOVE with the one I keep playing over and over. It's all about repetition and I hope that she picks up on some signs someday. It's definitely helping all of us learn the signs too. Even Douglas is using them to talk to her!


Alayna starts school next Thursday! Her summer is nearly over. She attends school on the "year round" calendar. I think she is looking forward to it, even though she can't tell me. It just seems like she is getting bored here at home and when I ask her if she wants to go "bye bye" she lights up with excitement. So, I'm sure that first bus ride will be fun for her!


Since Alayna is bearing weight so much better I plan to ask her PT at school about getting a gait trainer/walker. I think it would be wonderful to have another option for her at home.



Monday, July 11, 2011

Let's Catch Everyone Up!

She loves the birthday cake toy!


Getting ready to eat!


Wipeout! She still doesn't mind it if she falls backwards....still very unaware.


Practicing our sitting! Doing better.

June


In early June we were all done with school, including Alayna! She didn't qualify for summer school this year. The teachers do an assessment after each two week break that they have and Alayna didn't regress or take long to get right back on track. And to be honest I wasn't planning on sending her because it is only for 3 hours and it takes her 45 minutes to get there on the bus, it isn't her teacher that she is used to, and sometimes the therapists are not the ones she works with as well. Alayna doesn't respond to change easily and last year we did try summer school and it was torture for her. She didn't enjoy it at all!


So, instead I've been working with her at home on her sitting and standing. The Trinity HomeCare Products guy came out right when school ended and adjusted her stander so that she fit properly in it. Alayna seemed to have a big growth spurt and I wasn't able to squeeze her into the stander anymore. We do lots of play time and we are just trying to do our best to enjoy this summer and relax as much as we can.


July


This has been a great month for swimming so far! However, Alayna isn't liking the swimming pool very much (YET)! I had bought a special needs life jacket for her and I ended up sending it back because she threw a huge fit in it. I think it really restricted her movement and she hated that. I tried to put her into an infant type float the other day and it didn't go so well either. But we are not giving up! Alayna loves things that are familiar. I just think we are going to have to take baby steps to get her "warmed up" to the new pool. Lately I've just been putting her outside near the pool hoping she'll see it enough to recognize it and the surroundings. I'll let you know how this goes.


1p36 Annual Conference


Dana, Alayna and myself are headed to St. Paul, MN this week for the annual conference. It is being held on the campus of Bethel University. Approximately 30 families will be attending and many more wishing that they could attend. We are looking forward to reuniting with familiar faces and getting to know lots of new ones. It truly is a few days that help us to feel "normal" just like everyone else. We hope to gain some new knowledge on any topic that we can that will help us plan for Alayna's future. I'll be sure to post some pictures and re-cap the conference when we return.


Doctor Visits


This month we have 2 annual check-ups to go to. One is this week at University of Iowa Children's Hospital. Alayna will see Dr. Mathews, her neurologist. Currently Alayna takes a very minimum dose of phenobarbital for seizures. Alayna hasn't noticeably had a seizure since August of 2008. So, it will be interesting to see if the doctor wants to continue with the minimal dose or try to wean her off of it. At the end of the month we will travel to see Dr. Morgan, her developmental pediatrician, in Peoria. We'll see if he makes any new recommendations for Alayna. I'll keep you posted!


The Blog


I apologize for not keeping up with Alayna's blog. I hope to do better starting today! I'll be honest, Facebook gets a lot of my time and I know that isn't informative for everyone. Our support group is on Facebook and that is amazing because it is so fast and quick to talk to everyone.


New things with Alayna


Alayna has been sleeping awesome lately! She will usually sleep 10-11 hours a night. She doesn't nap too much during the day, but I can't be picky if she is going to sleep like she has been. She is doing better eating more things with texture. I can now feed her mac n' cheese and not have to cut it up. She ate 1/2 a grilled cheese the other day, but I did break it into pieces and put it in her mouth. Alayna loves to drink water! She will stand with assistance while holding her hands. If we support her at the waist she will collapse her legs knowing you are supporting her that much. We have to MAKE her stand as she still doesn't want to do it on her own. Alayna continues to love her musical toys and she loves her Ipod shuffle with her few favorite songs.

The entry following this is one that I had written a few months back but never published. So, you can see more of Alayna if you read on!